Monday, 2 November 2009 | By: AbhiLaSH RuHeLa

Ex - GF Meddling Into My Smooth Life !!!

            87TH BLOG -->>

       At last- ultimately..this 11 man representing Indian cricket lost the match against Australia..The 4th one-day against Australia and heres the score 2 all..Sachin missed his 17000 runs completion in ODI matches..He now stipulates only 7 runs more...Hope he will do the next time he is on the field..Next- Shahrukh Khan celebrated his 44th birthday today..Tanaaz and Bhakhtiyaar gaining 6 votes and Vindu and Ismail Darbar gaining 4 votes each gets into the target of the Bigg Boss house mates and thus this week is going to be interesting..This is what I always wait for in this very Show..Today's episode was the interesting one...This was more interesting then the one when KRK hurled bottle on Rohit...

            In the morning just when we reached college , we planned not to attend lectures and go for the cricket...Plan went successful as everyone showed their positiveness towards this plan..Finally went on the ground and started with the flick of Cricket..This is the first time I played with my BCA's buddies...and there was the huge applause when I hitted 2 Sixes consequently and then 1 Four just after that two shots..and yes I enjoyed the play..This was the first time when the girls of our college were invisible totally on the horizon and thus , all the boys were comfortable with each other..and the way the abuses were showering was the excel in the diplomatic way it was given..Opine..Boys went through this today...Declare..Fight..Combat..Argue..is the part of cricket..I was made umpire for a while and I was there to give wrong decisions overtaking the right ones to create havoc in the boys...because without arguing Playing any game is worthless...My motto wasnt to haggle the boys over each other...but to create a unjustified and unexpected scenario...After the play , gathered at canteen....whole of the class present there...Jokes and comments...passing over each other...nobody was robust today...at any of their statements which moistured the environment with the feel of love...I have stated recently that my Ex-GF trying to console upon and trying to merge the situation and grow up now with the both hand full....but its me who doesnt want to get engaged again with her and ruin my life and to again look in to that eyes...dont want that lips to throw word infront of me..dont want my words to get useless after speaking to her...dont want my body again to get touched with her...dont want her to shuffle my life between happiness and sorrow...There's a matter where she is being said USELESS infront of everyone...It wasnt said it was written...Im accused...I know why..just bcoz I was in the relation with her...Fact is the part of any case..and the fact whatever it is ..It needs proof and evidence...She has nothing..and she said to me that You aare the one who wrote..I not facing her eyes said that If you can say so...It wouldn't change into the truth and be vociferous...Its your statement..and its your fact in your mind..Then she said I want the answer ..Just say something and i said I dont want to say anything to you... 

              Why to say anything to the girl who is really useless to me...What has she given to me..15 days of life..Which I thought were the best one....but when the fact came in the sabotaging way...It showed me that How the life gets Tizzy...because of a girl...Its not a big success or its not a proof of your perfect personality when you get engaged and the opposite sex gets attached to your life..It generates the fact that you are stupid to believe the girl who is playing conundrums with you...and you not getting a bit of guess that she is fooling you from so many days...Now after this relation broked up, I thought that Im relieved now but this girl still gets into the words of talks and it makes me feel uncomfortable to listen to her voice and the words which are uttered for me..I hope that she reads this one and gets far enough from me and thus give me pleasure and happiness all over...

              Today Saquib showed his great sense of humour...I never knew this boy possessed such a good one in this field..His punches are really great...Its always a snub to receive any comment on your character..Today he said me a Common for the part I was playing in the cricket..I was playing from the sides of both the team..Then this word went into a big part of today's enjoyment..Everybody started calling me a common man..and all..Mostly I don't tolerate these type of jokes but when your good buddies are around and they are with it..even you enjoy..and I was really loving the punches by him..So I was in the act of hearing and laughing....

              Thanks for reading My declaration that Im getting annoyed by this Ex-GF...I want to kill her...Murder her...and what all I have to do with her so that she just gets dissapeared...

ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU

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Rohan Arora said...

Hey Abhilash............Stop crying over people.Better disconnect and be clear in your mind about your priorities.People like this will come and go. I may be sounding awkward but the world is not that good.Play cricket, study, blog around.........Enjoy Life yourself. Decide yourself rather than letting people decide for you :)

W!LSH!RE said...

I think that's a little rude of you. I guess I too would have been rude in your situation. But that would still not be acceptable. Tell her in a stern manner that you don't want to continue your relationship with her. She may not be convinced at first. But if you remain adamant, she'll give up on you. But don't let external factors determine or influence your decisions.
I really feel good that you're having a good time at college. Bunking, playing cricket, hanging out at the canteen, cracking jokes with friends, listening to teacher's scolding, completing assignments... all in a days work!

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Rohan, u r absoulutely right..People come and go and we should not disturb and trremble our routine bcoz of them..U have said right..Even I think d same..but the person which was gone is poking me between my life..and thus its irritating me...how to get rid of this..Im unable to undrstand...Thats why I wrote in the last that i want to kill her murder her....and yes this is not effecting my life..Im studying playing and blogging....

Thanx for reading and commenting...

Your bro, Abhilash...

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Wilshire, Yaa Im rude...and ill have to be with such a girl who have ditched me and made joke of me in my class...the girl who is characterless and cheap..who dont know how to behave...the girl who have no frndship witha gal but all the boys are her frnd...the girl who was in relationship with me and at the same time she was dancing with an another boy of the class....She is cheap..she is a spitting material and the worst thing of this owrld...the gal who gave so many of the false promises..how can I be sweet towardds her...no..never..Ill kill her..ill murder her..if ill get the chance..Im happy and thankful to god dat she is suffering from the problem of fits...this is wat she needed....

and yes Wilshire, im enjoying my college times..but the sitting of gals with us makes me uncomfortable bcoz I cant abuse in public....just missing that charm of the day..

Your bro, Veeru

W!LSH!RE said...

I completely understand how you're feeling Abhilash. I'd like to give you a piece of suggestion: Forget about her and get on with your life. Don't let her presence disturb your life. If you would be in love with her, she'd have influenced your life. If you hate her, she will still attract your attention. So the best thing to do in this case is to be indifferent towards any of her antics. This is my experience speaking. I too was in a similar situation like yours. I've learn't that if you try to flush out her thoughts and memories from your head, you'll not think about her. You'll notice a vast change once you forget her. So, all you have to do is think of something else whenever your ex comes to mind. Simple. Ofcourse it'll take some time. Time heals all wounds brother. Just remember that there are better things to do than to get caught up in her thoughts. by the way you've described her, she doesn't seem to be a good person at all. Promiscuous, back-stabbing, etc. You've said that you're thankful that she's suffering from fits? Now that's bad. Let others be bad. But never drop your standard that low. Never should you say anything of this nature so publicly. You have a status to upkeep. Keep this in mind brother. It is said; be generous in appreciation but cautious in criticism. Yeah, always take criticism positively. Whatever I've said, I said for your improvement.

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Wilshire I didnt said this thing publicly that she is suffering from fits..I said it to u....its a different thing dat everyone will be reading this...this same situations are there in the social networking sites...and Wilshire yes i want to forget her...dats wat I did in this 2 months..but she is coming to talk to me..standing besides to me..dat is not letting me forget her...and i dont cry while remembering her..I go into a furious state of mind while thinking of her...Im not emotionally attached towards her..but Im psychologically aattached to her..hahaha...means I become ghajini while thinking about her...and I didnt loved her..i just started to love her..but it diminished right the moment i started loving her...so thats not the problem..hope u wud have understood my state of mind and thanx for suggesting me good..and man i know dat wenever u write anything..u do it for my improvement..otherwise u arent so dummy naa to write sumthing to me on my blog for my deprovement and dat too on the daily basis..hahaha..i know dat u love me so u r in this act of comments...regularly...

Thanx bro.....
love u...
Abhilash veeru

abhinav said...

heya bhaiya...

1st of al i'd lyk 2 thnk u 4 ur wishes u sent me on twitter...

I felt very gud wen i read dat u bunkd perhaps 4 d 1st time... I'v always njoyd dis coz it allows u 2 spend real quality time wid ur frnds... Its d true essence of 1's college days...

Wel i'd lyk 2 say dat u better nt write much abt dat girl... Esp sum1 whom u consider nt worth talkin 2... Also i'd nt lyk 2 kno dat u r in d midst of another controversy...

I must tel u dat since my colg hs startd, its gonna b much difficult 4 me 2 keep commenting evn occasnly... Thou i'l try my best...

Keep writin...

Honestly Yours,
Abhinav

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Abhinav Its ok yaar...First of all u say bhaiyya..and then u thank me for this little thing that I wished u for the exam...take this easy...

And Abhinav this cant be said as I bunked..bcoz the whole class was absent naa...Mera bunk toh tab ginaa jaayega jab Ill bunk with my particular group...this cant be said as bunk....

and Abhinav, even i dont want to talk about this bitch in my this beautiful blog but my mind was just roaming around the things happened with her and the way she came to talk with me...that is why, I wrote about her..and im not regularly talking about her..whenever dat particular gals create an incident wich overtakes the other incidents..I have to talk about her...and the word u used controversy...U know ur Veeru bhaiyya..How can I be away from controversy...hahaha...today itself it happened..just read my next blog...hahaha...

And yes u concentrate on ur college..but even a word or sentence will do as a comment if u dont have time...chalo then..best of luck for ur exams and preparations...

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