Friday, 6 November 2009 | By: AbhiLaSH RuHeLa

Nidhi Didi Turned 22 !!!

            90TH BLOG -->>

        Yesterday , I posted a minute detail about the upcomming film Paa whose trailer made my eyes go wet...but there was no comment on it...Im very much interested about the film but the way you all have ignored it..I dont know what kind of choice you all possess in the subject of films and movies...But I really admire Mr. Bachchan and if this film fails to collect the money and gain the title of Superhit Amitabh Bachchan will really turn into the same posture and look as he is in the poster of the film..Hahaha...and I dont want this film to be a Flop...Right now I have turned down my television after I saw last two players throwing water on all the Sachin's effort he struggled on the pitch...Today Sachin completed his tenure of 20 years in this International cricket with this he has settled many new and unbreakable records..Today He hit the 45th century in his ODI career and completed his 17000 runs in approximately 423 matches...I dont know HOw their success dont get tizzy with the time..How they are consistent..Why am I not like them? Why can't I do something which can make all the Indians proud of? I have to do something in my life related to this but it will take a lot of efforts to reach my goal...

            Today my sister Nidhi Didi celebrated her 22nd birthday..SISTER?? This would have puzzled you and confused you as you all will be knowing that Im a single child of my parents..I dont agree with the elucidation of claiming someone as our brother and sister only when he is born from the same womb...No..Never..Its not my fault that the person in whom I see my sister is not of my blood relation..It would have been my fault if I would have taken her easy and ignored her after knowing that she has been a charming person of my life..A girl whom I met on Orkut...chatted with her for some 2 weeks..Had a fight and got a comment from her that I havent seen the worst person like you all over my life..Then after some months again a reply from her..Wishing me Happy Diwali and stating that Im not from them who are so worst to turn the face from the person who was sumtime a friend of his or her and not wish him luck on the festivals..Then again got a moment to chat with her..Again after some weeks we got closer and I shared many secrets with her and then their was a beautiful proposal from her side - WILL YOU BE MY BROTHER? I didnt took a single second and then and there both of us tied a knot of Brother and sister Relation..I was really gratified by her talks and chats...Then I heard her voice on the phone and there was a feel and monsoon of love and care...From then I took Didi as one of the advisor in my life..A girl who struggled so much in her life and today she is tudying with the job asides which keeps troubling her again and again..She dont take supports from her family and live her life with the struggles and just keep burning in the fire of pains and discomfort...She never hostile works and efforts..I just love her bcoz she is not obnoxious to my views...whenever she feels that Im wrong she shout and scold me... and as I respect her a lot..I drag my self into the state of silence and learn many useful points and suggestions which she explain to me in detail..She has never misapprehended and misunderstood me...

               For the first time we came into contact in September,2007 on Orkut...when we accepted the fact that our relation is not just of being online buddies but to be brother and sister for the lifetime..and unfortunalety as she was in Pune I was in Nashik we didn't got a chance to meet..Then now when I migrated to Mumbai..and for the admission purpose I touched the land of Pune where she recides...I got a chance to meet her..and this gratification moment was in the month June,2009....That means both of us were tied to each other only with our voice for two whole years...and there we are now..When we have the identity of How my bro or sis look like..Isn't this drastic case and interesting...For the first time when I fell that she really consider me as her brother when she asked for the address and sent me a Rakhi in the year 2008..That was an emotional moment for me..and Now this time when I visited her She tied me Rakhi then and there and told me to celebrate Raksha bandhan on that very day...Whole of my life my cousin sisters Swati Didi for 20 years and Tannu for 7 years have kept sending me Rakhi but this was the first time when a feeling of sister was touched when she asked to forward my wrist and she tied Rakhi..Just would like to Thank her for the pleasure and happiness she has given me...and would like to wish her success and warmth for her future on her this very Birthday...Friends Just pray luck for her...

                Thanks for reading the beautiful relation which I share with my sister...Hope all of you would have found yourself in me...


ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU

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W!LSH!RE said...

So Nidhi and you are Orkut friends? cool! Having such a friendship is so beautiful! It feels so unreal. I'm sure you have not made it up. Both of you share a close bond. Keep it that way.
I did read what you posted about Amitabh's movie. But I'm not a movie buff. And bollywood movies interest me the least! So I'll be the last person to be interested in it!

Anonymous said...

nice relation ship............keep it up!!!

Anonymous said...

Hey hOw @ PosT coMmEnT???

Anonymous said...

mAdDy,,,,

Rohit Rohela said...

Abhilash,

I think the way you appreciate relationships, nurture them and then cherish them is indeed outstanding. The very fact that you have metamorphosed such a fragile relation into a beautiful brother-sister bond shows the depth of your wisdom and emotional quotient.

As for your desire to do something which makes all around you proud, keep going bro, you have a long way!! I am sure you will shine bright and blaze a trail....

Well done on this blog! Please give a real classy one on your century, waiting for it!!

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Wilshire, you are mad...U dont know hindi dat doent mean bollywood is chutiyaa...some of their film is really awesome...and Paa is one of them..

And Wilshire...Nidhi didi n me are not frnds...V r brother and sister..I have written dis whole blog stating so clearly that being brother and sister is not only wen v r born from the same womb and then too after this u have used d word FRIEND for this beautiful relation of brother-sister...It has really hurted me...but ....leave it I dont want to say anything...on this now...otherwise Ill be rude....and it may hurt u....as i respect u I dont want to say anytthing...

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Mahesh...Thanx for reading my blog and commenting on it...where u lost from so many days...and wen u r posting with the anonymous identity kindly state ur name on the comment...and man just scroll down to the right side of my blog u will find how to post the comment in red colour font...

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Rohit Bhaiyya...Thanx for commenting...and yes bro...I have cherished this relationship and bonded so nicely with this bro-sis relationship..no relation can be maintained if its not balanced...like my relation with Swati didi wasnt balanced..I kept loving her and she kept breaking my expectations..and..finally she showed her real face...but here in this relationship...Nidhi didi has done a lot for me...The day I met her..She spended so much money on me that i was feeling ashamed...and so Im very proud for making this type of gal as my sister...

Bhai...abhi tak toh main bada easy tha...ab now to see ur expectation for my 100th blog has made me alert and conscious...actually right now i have no idea wat to do on that day...on my bday..i had d same pressure...wat to write...bcozz many were waiting for that very blog..but it was fair to their expectations..hope this century one will make u happy...

nasser said...

hey veru.. is this same girl who was my caulig... nice she is nice girl. and she will keep u happy...

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Nasser bhai, first of all thanx for reading and commenting on the blog....It was a long time u have commented the last time..yes bhaai she is d same gal who was ur colleague and I want to thank you too bcoz She is my sister and i got such a good girl as my sister just bcoz of u...if u wud not have been there I wudnt have got connected with her..thanx a lot...

W!LSH!RE said...

I'm really sorry for getting it wrong! I did read your blog carefully but I forgot to mention that both of you share a brother-sister relationship. It slipped my mind and I mentioned "friend". I dont have a sister and I'd really wish for myself luck like yours. You're very lucky to have got such a beautiful relationship.
And its not that I don't know hindi too well. I'm quite good at hindi. But the thing is that Bollywood is dedicated to produce flops! Stories without head nor tail. There are just a handful of movies that are worth watching. The others are just crap. Just a few laughs here and there. Thats all. I chose not to say anything on this new movie because I've neither seen the review nor the commercial.

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Thanx Wilshire....I wrote thid blog just to let the people give emphasis on the bro-sos relationship i share wid her and not the one of just a frnd...and U who is such an acute observer said FRIENDS...it made me go mad dat u didnt noticed it then wat will be abt others..but now as u have written this Im happy again...waise Ill like to suggest u...never ever consider a girl as ur sister who is happy and who is satisfied wit hehr life..always be a brother of a gal who needs sum1 in her life to change her liufe....then its a real meaning to consider a gal as ur sister...hope u wud have undrstood...

and u idiot...chup chaap meri baat maano aur Paa ki taareef karo samjhe naa...

abhinav said...

hey bhaiya...

1st of al congrats dat u've recvd 2day d max comments so far in ur journey... Its a sure indication of hw u hav bin successful in dis...

Its gr8 2 c u dedicate 2day's 2 nidhi didi... I nvr hav had ny contact wid her... Bt ur descrptn tels she must a very caring n lovable person...

2day's post again showd d considerate, caring, compassionate side of u... I hope ur relations remain strong as evr...

Its $uckin maths goin on @home btw... M feelin really nervous 4 tomrw's test... Coz 1st d classes declare test at short notice n den humaari maarte hai! Damn them! :-S

Plz dnt my mother dat i wrote dis... Dnt let dis cum evn near d corner of her eye... Lookin 4wd 2 meetin u agn 2nite...

Keep writin...

Honestly Yours,
Abhinav

Abhilash Ruhela said...

Abhinav...after ur dis comment v have met....but blogging and its interaction is always done here...this is like a conference room for me and my friends...Its not my blog..its our adda to meet...and Abhinav this is d second highest comments i have received.....before this i received 19 comments on the day i won Mr.Fresher....but nidhi didi has always been lucky for me....muaah to her ...and Abhinav dont worry tomorrow u will do ur best....I have full faith on you aur agar buraa bhi ho gaya toh kya huaaa..saala board exam thode hi naa hai....bhul jaana dene k baad.....and then my fav dialogue Dartey hain kya hum kisise???....So just go tomorrow in ur exam hall proudly and confidently....read the questions write ur name on the answer paper and move out from d class..khatam ho gaya exam...why to take tension....

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