Saturday, 6 March 2010 | By: AbhiLaSH RuHeLa

My Bloody & Tosh Relatives !!!

           148TH BLOG -->>

        Chachu-Mamu-Tauji .. Whenever I hear my friends speak these words..I just go mad in pique and anger..I just hate my relatives...I just dont like listening about any relationship except of parents..Or most extreme about Brother..Otherwise all the words referred for relations are an Allergy to me..I just feel like killing myself rather than listening about someone's love with their relatives..I'm not cursing them for this..But I'm not complimenting them for this..Nor I'm so happy and delighted about their relationship and love with their relatives..I just hate my relatives..I know that..And I believe that My relatives are the worst part of my life..For them, Even I can be the same..But for me..They surely and obviously are.. I hate all of them so much that I can hit all of them if I get a licensed gun..I don't want anybody of them to be alive..

             This time I went to my native place in December for the whole one month..First I went to my mummy's side..There my Nana and Nani kept praising me infront of everyone whoever came to our house from the village..Everytime my father called , nani told him that Veeru is very good boy..and blah blah..Then at last when Two days were remaining , We went to my Mama's house..There as soon as my Nana saw his grandchildren(daughter and son of his Son-My Mama), he just behaved as I wasn't in the room..For the whole 1 month he kept throwing red roses on me filled with my praises..I thought this is how he loves his grandchildren...But when I met that cousins..I concluded that The love I got was not even 1% of what they were getting..They were hugged..Kissed..and the way he was laughing and sharing his talks with them was unbelievable to me..With me , He used to sit so anxiously and quietly that I thought he is so serious because he is a rich man and a politician so he speaks only when its very necessary..So finally I was ignored there and I hated him a lot for this..

              Then after this , me and my mummy marched towards my native place - My father's side..As soon as I reached there..Again the love and appreciation started showering on me..I kept listening..and unfortunately I kept believing whatever my Dadi said to me..Chacha and Chachi said to me ...I thought that Yaa..Im really the most loving grandchild of my Dadi...Im the one who she is most fond of..And I thought this because I never reply aggressively and sarcastically to anyone in my relative..Whatever they say I just follow it rather than giving my take on it...My dadi kept praising me and kept appreciating me..Then after sometime I went in her bedroom and saw her showcase..There was only a single photo frame and it had the picture of my cousins-The children of my father's big brother..And that very time..I felt like crying and shouting..But I just kept quiet because I didn't wanted to make an issue..In the drawing room, there's picture of the children of both my chachas and in her bedroom theres picture of both the children of my Tauji..Then what the hell do you love me...I just felt like killing and murdering all my cousins then and there..But controlled my anger..

             Then coming to my cousins..My Tauji has two children- One boy who is 2 years elder than me and a girl who is 4.5 months elder to me..Both of them are so proudy like they are the most successful personality of Delhi..Idiots..The boy is so ugly that I can't define him even after having the experience of writing 148 blogs..The words are less to define him..and the daughter is beautiful...But her height and her character..A SHIT !!! Dont even want to see her face..I'm ashamed that she is my cousin..Don't even want to introduce her to someone as my cousin..Don't want to be disrespected..Then comes the children of 1st chachaji..He has two sons..One 6 years younger and second one 10 years younger to me respectively..This both are so mannerless that nobody wants their daughter to be near of both of them..They are not less than any terrorist or rapist...I just ignore them whenever I have them near me..Then comes the children of 2nd chachaji..They are very small so I have no problem with them..But when their father is so manner-less I can easily judge and decipher that how will the kids going to be after some years..

            It was my 18th birthday and I was in my native place for the first time on my birthday and He refused to bring the cake from the market even after money was to be paid to him from my mother..He said "Jiska birthday hai wo Jaaye"..So chachaji go and fuck off!!! Coming to my Tauji..Once my grandpa was very sick...and my papa just returned from the hospital in UP where grandpa was admitted..Papa was there for 20 days approx..He then again called and said my father that this time Dadaji has very less days to live so come with your family @ native place so that everyone can meet him..Father said that its my new job I cant take risk..He replied,"You will get many more jobs but you aren't going to get your father back if he is gone.". Then my father said him that Veeru has his exams after 15 days ..I also have to manage this.. He replied then aggressively, "Abe saale kya beta beta kar raha hai..main jaanta hu ki tera beta suicide kar ke marrne waala hai....Kuch nahi karne waala tera beta , tu usey le ke aa jaa.." and my father didn't said anything on this...You bloody Tauji...Go see your daughter..What is she..and What all she does...Just count her male friends and then count her female friends...Male friends are 10 times more than the female ones..This is enough to judge what your daughter is..and coming to your son..He doesn't need to commit suicide..He is already dead..with no college..no education..no future..Just keep him in your house..He will clean , broom and maintain your house...

               So friends, this is only a little about my bloody relatives who are protean..Everyone of them is IDIOT..I just hate everyone of them..I want to Kill everyone of them..I just dont want to see their face..I'm not going to attend any of my cousin's wedding and any of my Tauji's and chacha's funeral..And not going to invite them for my marriage and reception too..Don't want to make my best days the worst because of their faces present there..I don't know what have made all of you so proudy...But I do know that I hate all of you so much that I want to push you all on the road without clothes and make a MMS of yours and circulate all around near your societies..I hate all of you...You Bloody RUHELAS.....Just accept this flying KICK from me - Dishoom !!!

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ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU 

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Wilshire Dias said...

Koi na jaane unka future kya hoga,
life milegi ya tawe pe fry hoge,
toh hoth ghuma,
seeti bajaa,
seeti bajaa ke bol,
unki maa ki ****

Well, I'd not be authorised to say that! So I'm telling YOU to say that, woh bhi seeti baja ke bol!
anyway, on a serious note, almost every family have such grudges.
Even our family. On my mother's side of my family my relatives are selfish, but on my dad's side of my family they are selfless! It really scares me! I mean how can they love me so much! It seems as if they're just faking it but they're not! Whereas on my mother's side they are totally opposite. We've had to literally blow up thousands and thousands of rupees to help them in times of dire need. Medical expenses, legal, etc. But they never gave back anything in return, not even love. But its alright because we never asked for anything. But when we asked, they never gave. This is not the case with my relatives on my dad's side.
So you see, every family has such issues. I even know a few of my friends and even acquaintances who share the same problem. So its not strange or out of the blue. The best way to deal with it is to simply avoid such people. I understand that family relations tie you together. But I'm not telling you to abandon them. All you have to do is keep a little distance. Dont keep them too close. and ever expect anything from them. And neither should you pamper them. Just maintain a distance. "pith piche yaar di jo karda buraie
uhnu dooro Sat Sri Akaal changi ae." I hope you understand it. Even if you dont, its alright because it means the same whatever I've explained.
But you should never bad mouth your relatives in such a way. I understand you expressed how you feel about them, but i really hope you dont mean it. And even if you do, you should have toned it down a little. But its okay. You didn't act wrong according to me. The way you've reciprocated is the outcome of their attitude towards you, and it is justified, I'd say.
Anyway, my heavyweight punch is in your waiting list. Forward it to your relatives if you wish! There's enough for everyone!

Arushi Abrol said...

Once before too, you used your blog to criticize and talk about someone in public and again you are doing that.. Its my opinion and you obviously have the right to ignore it but what you think wrong, may be right in other people's opinion. Your relatives and your father may have done you wrong but I think its wrong to comment about them in a public forum..

We are proud of your success but it should not make you cynical and critical of people around you..

Arushi

Abhilash Ruhela- The Blogger said...

Hii Didi,
Its not like that my success has made me so proudy or foul-mouthed that I have started criticizing people's act in my blog..Actually I have no relationships with anyone of my relatives so I wrote about them as I had no contact with them as such..They are just sumone I know the faces of..and else there is no relationship with them...So I took it lightly when I wrote about them as It least bother me...My friends are more closer to me than my relative..And for more easy example..U r more closer to me than my relatives..Now I hope that u will understand why it didnt took even a single fear or guilt in me for writing abt them..

Today your mummy papa came to my house from belapur..Uncle was tired as his this week has been hectic..They came for the Holi Milap..hahaha..It was a nice time with them..Uncle is very interesting...I just enjoy with him..and he always compliment me...So its so blushing at that moment...hahaha...But I really enjoy with him...Hope for a get - together...Hope u and ur dear hubby get a free time to come to us and v can talk and eat together....

THanks...a lot....for comments on blog..Ill try to stop criticizing but sumtyms anger cant be stopped to be expressed..and so the result is this blog..hahaha...thanks..

Abhilash Ruhela- The Blogger said...

Hii Didi,
Its not like that my success has made me so proudy or foul-mouthed that I have started criticizing people's act in my blog..Actually I have no relationships with anyone of my relatives so I wrote about them as I had no contact with them as such..They are just sumone I know the faces of..and else there is no relationship with them...So I took it lightly when I wrote about them as It least bother me...My friends are more closer to me than my relative..And for more easy example..U r more closer to me than my relatives..Now I hope that u will understand why it didnt took even a single fear or guilt in me for writing abt them..

Today your mummy papa came to my house from belapur..Uncle was tired as his this week has been hectic..They came for the Holi Milap..hahaha..It was a nice time with them..Uncle is very interesting...I just enjoy with him..and he always compliment me...So its so blushing at that moment...hahaha...But I really enjoy with him...Hope for a get - together...Hope u and ur dear hubby get a free time to come to us and v can talk and eat together....

THanks...a lot....for comments on blog..Ill try to stop criticizing but sumtyms anger cant be stopped to be expressed..and so the result is this blog..hahaha...thanks..

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