Tuesday, 9 March 2010 | By: AbhiLaSH RuHeLa

Women's Day - My Mother and Sister !!!

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        Everyone was quiet..Everyone was waiting for the news to come..Everyone was watching different patients lying on the stretchers and moving here and there on the corridor of the hospital..Suddenly they saw that the Red light disappeared which was waving its dangerous hand from a long period..Everyone stood up to listen to the news Doctor would give after coming out.After 5 minutes doctor came and said , "ITS A GIRL." The husband of the pregnant women was standing in pride till then but as soon as he heard about the girl child, his face dropped and he sat in anxiousness on the floor of the hospital.The mother-in-law of the pregnant women started cursing the innocent..and other family members made their dirty face..I just wondered what it was..Whats so dissentiening in the words ITS A GIRL !!!

            It was INTERNATIONAL WOMEN's DAY today and I really want to salute all the girls, women and the female population of this world. You all have really augmented the beauty of the earth with your presence. If you all would not have been on this earth, I think that no boy would have smiled ever..No boy would have passed his secret to anyone..No boy would have demanded anything in life..The females contributes a lot..I'm just proud of being a child of a women..Im just proud to have my Nani and Dadi alive and with me..The girls really adds many elements on the earth to make it a wonderful planet and also adds an enthusiasm in every human being living on the earth..

             It is said that Man can be smart and tough according to his physical prospects but when It comes to emotions and heart, The girls are lot more stronger then us..There are many examples where after the death of the wife, man can't handle his kids even for a month and weds for the 2nd time..But when a husband dies, rarely it happens that a women marry for the 2nd time..They have that courage to nourish their kids as a single parent and make them a successful personality..We should really salute these womans..It is said that a man never commands himself in his life..I have observed that till the 15 years of the life, Boys run on the commands given by his mother..Then for the next 5 years on the command of the sister , then from 20 to 25 years on the command of the girlfriend, then from 25 to 35 on commands of the wife, then from 35 to 55 on the command of the daughter, then from 55 till death on the command of the daughter-in-law..So you can yourself see the different roles of women which guides a single man so much.....

               On this women day, I would really like to take the name of two most important womans of my life - My Mother- Shrimati Sunita Ruhela and My Sister- Miss Nidhi Tiwari(Don't be confused.She is my Rakhi sister but a very close one).My mother have always motivated and supported me..I'll not talk much about her right now as I'm going to talk about her on the blog I'll write on 10th April as its her birthday then..But I will really say that If she would not have supported me I would have died till now..Because there was a phase in my life when I had no reason to live, At that time in my life, She showed her role as a women and a mother and made me whatever I am today..And then talking about my sister - Nidhi Tiwari..A girl who is an example of hard-work, soft-spoken, friend, dedication, sweetness and Parent to own-self..She has seen a very bad life in her past..The worst one can see..Dont want to divulge her story here without her permission but I will really say, whenever I felt broken with a problem standing ahead of me, I only remembered her and stood up again and started with the process of marching towards the goal..The girl had no support from her family of any kind but today she is living in a city like Pune..on a rent which she pays herself with the money she earns..She is studying with the fees paid by herself...She owns a laptop and an internet connection which is purchased with the money she has earned..She would have done cheapness like some girls- manipulating a boy and then making him pay all the money needed for her requirements but rather than doing this she managed to struggle and slog down...And today she is standing in her life on her own basis..without anyone's support..I'm proud to have her as my sister..

               So , Happy Women's Day to all the Mothers, sisters, granny, chachis, mamis, taijis, betis , buaas and bahus of this world...Ohh..Sorry even Kaamwaali baais...Just rock as you all do...We boys bow to you...We are your slaves... :-)

THANKS

ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU 

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Wilshire Dias said...

well coming to think of it, why a separate day for women if they say they're at par with men? Why special reservations for jobs? Why the need for them to be spoon-fed, and call them the fairer sex? This is so contradictory. I could understand if there was a Man's day as well. That way I'd understand that every type of person is getting his day. Like Children's day, Father's day, Mother's day, Teacher's day, etc. Maybe soon we'll have Bajaj Pulsar day, or College Bunk day as well! Not many people see that these days are just an excuse for the marketing industry. On Valentines day roses are pricey. Not only roses, even ice cream is costly! The kulfi which costs Rs. 10 was being sold for Rs. 25. So I asked the guy, "bhaiya, main toh akela hu, toh mujhe kyu loot rahe ho?!" To which he replies "arre 'vaylentine' hai na, isliye!" People really know how to push my buttons!
Well my point here is people need to understand the sentiments of such celebrations and not just be commercially exploited. If I had to celebrate Women's day (sorry i didn't celebrate women's day!) I would first of all, organise driving lessons and road manners for all women who ride two wheelers and cars! Hehe! Initially, i used to think women do drive well and people say women cant drive for the sake of fun. But i recently learnt that there are many women who ride around as if they're flying! I'm not saying women cant drive. I'm saying there is a small section of them who aren't able to. But I should also point out that there is a sizeable amount of men who cant drive too. They drive around rashly with little consideration of other people around them. But picture this. If an equally rash man and a lady crash into each other, who will the people blame? The Guy obviously. So please girls, save us rash riders by learning to ride well and dodge us when we blaze across you on our powerful bikes and smoke you on your dainty scooty! Hahaha!
But on a serious note we need to respect women. By 'we', I mean the idiots who are bound by senseless traditions where women are treated as property. There's nothing more beautiful in this world than a woman. That song is playing in my head now. *lala strength of a woman...* God first created man, then a woman. He first create a rough copy before working on the masterpeice.
I hope i lied enough to keep the ladies happy!

angie said...

hey....thanks for all the gd thoughts abt us women...its really impressive to see such great thoughts at this young age....not many new generation boys have this much respect for their mothers and sister...

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Wilshire, Its ok when u have said all this about women..kyuki agar maine kahaa hota to criticism baras baras kar aata mere uparr..par ab jab tumne kahaa hai to koi kuch nahi kehne waala..tumhara ye comment main apne agle blog me daalne waala hu for others also to read..bcoz main nahi chahta hu ki koi bhi ye comment miss kare....u have written what is right....but thodi toh ijjat de deta yaar...but chal theek hai...sub apna apna soch rakhtey hain..wohi hona chahiye..kisi aur ke liye fake nahi likhna chahiye.. u r absolutely right....

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

ANgie Aunty,
Thanks aunty first of all for reading my blog and then for commenting and then for giving a new name to yourself..This name really suits ur personality...

and auntiji thanks for liking my thoughts...its very hard to agree the people of different age group and with ur approval Im happy that even u enjoying my writings and thoughts..thanks a lot angie auntiji..

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