Thursday, 24 November 2011 | By: AbhiLaSH RuHeLa

Dharti pe roop Maa-Baap Ka, us Daata ki Pehchaan hai !!!

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           Today is 23rd November and my parents are celebrating their 23rd Marriage Anniversary. Being their only child, I always try to keep my parents happy. Their only aim in life is to make me a nice and successful human being. They always try to fulfill all my requirements. I don't think that there is anything which I need and my parents haven't provided me. My father never had a good salary(in my school times) but he always made sure that I don't get an inferior feeling that I am not as rich as my other friends. I always stood with my friends in confidence and an approach of equality. My father always provided me with Story Books when I was kid and made it sure that I have gone through all the stories. He used to ask stories to me and I used to narrate him. As soon as I used to finish a story book, I already had an another book to read. He never made me feel that his salary was not much and I'll have to control my feelings towards reading numerous story books and having all what my friends have. 


               My parents made it sure that their child should know English language as both of them are from Hindi medium as their parents didn't had much knowledge about what English medium can do to a student. We were not in a high-class area during my school times, there was only one school which was famous and I used to study in it. The teachers were Maharashtrians and hence no one concentrated in improving our language. I had fluency but I always remained backlogged in Grammar section. When I started Blogging, many people pointed my Grammar and I was fed up of listening to the same reviews of my blog. I was tired of making everyone understand that I am not a convent-studied child and hence I don't have good flow of grammar in English language. Even today, my grammar is pointed but I am happy that people say you need to work little more to make it perfect. This "little" will be eliminated very soon and I hope that people with good grammar will love to see the perfectness of my blog. The people who are studied from a normal English-medium schools like mine are Okay with my blog as they can't find the errors but the writers who have accomplished their target of publishing book feels that I need to work little more in this section and hence I am working day and night for it. But, still, my speaking skill in English is above average and the credit of this goes to my parents who used to make me stand and read my English textbook for 30 minutes daily in the childhood days. It is my parents' effort that I am into this writing world today. 


             I was very shy in my childhood and I was too scared of walking towards the stage and then performing on it in front of my elders and my schoolmates. But my parents kept entering my name in every Fancy Dress, cultural activities in school which resulted in the "BEST BOY" award I won in my last year of Pre-primary schooling. After that, I participated in all the Annual Gatherings of my school till 8th std. Today, when I give presentations in my class with full confidence and gain the highest marks in class, some students asks me that why don't you feel scared of giving presentations. The only reason of this is the confidence and belief my parents have embedded in my personality. Once, I used to be very conscious of my looks. I used to keep staring at the floor because I always felt that the mustache on my face makes me look weird. I used to smile less because I used to think that my teeth which are not in level makes me look ugly. But then, my mother with her personality made me feel that it's not about your look, it's your work which makes you everyone's sweetheart. My mother has short height, dusky complexion but still she is popular in our society. She is known as the most social, helpful, talented and leading lady of the society. We have changed our resident for 3 times and every society where we have lived miss my mother till now and they keep calling her to know how is she now-a-days and what is she doing for society and in what ways. This is the aura of my mother. And her personality and her confidence in public has motivated me and made me whatever "little-bit" I am today. 


              A child can never be creative and he can never think of doing something big if the support of parent is not provided and the environment of home is not nice. My parents should be really applauded that they provided me a very cool and funny environment in house and I never experienced any cheap brawls and accusations. Many parents keep fighting and arguing for the whole day and the children fall into depression because of this. So, on this 23rd Anniversary of my parents, I would pray God to keep them happy and together for next 27 years more so that I can celebrate their 50th Anniversary grandly. Aisa nahi hai k uske baad naa rakkhein par 50th ka craze hai mujhe abhi se isliye bol raha hun. :-) Apna paisa rahega toh mast kharch karunga party pe, abhi mataji aur pitaji ko bachaane do mere liye. :-)


             Thanks. May God Bless my parents and make me strong and capable to make them happy and satisfied. :-)


 ABHILASH RUHELA-VEERU       

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Harman said...

..Congrats to your parents...happy marriage anniversary!
Your blog and english is good ... better then any of the bloggers here..
I have studied in Convent" Holy Cross Convent " (girls)
in mumbai and to me your english is fine..
I always appreciate English which is understood by all in simple text.. yes grammatically it should be correct....
not everyone wants to publish book or that thing is kept in mind...the flow of thoughts should be continuous from heart for simple common people!

Anonymous said...

Congrats to u n ur parents.....
god bless u all.
:-)

Megha said...

Happy marriage anniv to uncle n aunt:)god bless!!!

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thanks a lot Harman mam, your comment has made me so happy and Im feeling relieved now. Thanks.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thanks Anonymous. Your name would have done better to this.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thanks Megha. Thanks for your wish.

Abhi_humdinger (Abhijeet Shesh) said...

Many Congratulations to you and your parents...
One thing I would like to highlight here is...The environment of any household is key and must be always conducive.

Well Done Boy :)

sohail.s said...

congrats veeru...

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thank u Abhi. I am happy that u landed on my blog and liked my post. And yes, the environment of any house effects the child's mentality.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thank u body-builder Sohail.

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