Tuesday, 31 January 2012 | By: AbhiLaSH RuHeLa

Guruji, Kya Aap Chutiye Hain?


            532nd BLOG POST -->>


       I know that it's not only my problem but many of you may have faced it. Teachers often target our parents if we do some mischief in class. You do something nonsensical and teacher will directly throw their same pakaau dialogues, "This shows your family value" or "Is this the way how you talk to your parents at home?" or "Have your parents taught you to talk like this?" This humiliates and snubs us in front of the whole class and we sit quietly by hiding our face as tortoise does when it is touched. What if children start attacking their parents for the quality of teaching they deliver? What if we start poking them for every pakau example they use for making us understand some definitions and terms? What if we say that "Is this how your parents taught you at home?" or "Is this the quality of jokes your parents enjoy with you?" or "Is this the only way of teaching your parents taught you?" or "The way you teach unsuccessfully reflects your family values" :-) If students will start doing so, I am sure that all the teachers will stop showing their Authority in front of us. :-)


           Come on Teachers, you have been students too. There is no need of making us feel bad about what we are. You know that you are our King and Ruler today. But that doesn't means that you will kill us for being superior to us. Once we leave campus, you are just a common man to us. I can hit you in local train if I feel that you were the teacher because of whom I got less Internals and I got screwed in my Graduation's final mark-sheet. So, try to be in your limits. You are not those teachers of the traditional period when you charged only 10 paise for the whole day because the main target was to spread knowledge and not to earn money. Today, we know and even you know that you are here to teach us because you are being given a satisfactory salary. You are here to earn money. You have no concerns whether a student have understood the terms and logic or not. This is YOU. This is TODAY's TEACHERS. Now, should we say that it is your parents who taught you to prioritize money over the career of students? When you give 2% in Internals and leave the students in fire to score the rest passing marks in theory, should we say that "This reflects your Family values?" Fatt ke haath mein aa jayegi tumhari, samjhe?


            When you give us plethora of questions to be completed as assignments, should we target your family that they make you work so aggressively at home and hence you have this habit of making others work in the same manner? 


            When you make us leave class just because we are 5 mins late, should we target your parents and say that you are made to stay out of house on the day when you reach 5 minutes late at home? 


            When you make us feel guilty for a small mistake committed by us, should we target your parents and say that you are being tortured at home and this is the result that you are doing the same with us?


            So teachers, remember that if we, students, will come in our original form, you will have to run away from the institution without thinking of the amount of rupees you are being paid for doing nothing in the college. Even you know that a parent never want their child to smoke and drink. You know that a parent will never like their son/daughter roam on roads, gardens, theaters, malls and public places with their girlfriend/boyfriend. You know that a parent never wants to see their children bunking the lecture for which they paid a hefty amount and sit in mall for the whole day. So, if a children does this, he does this because he is being influenced by the people around him. When a student sit between 60 new students, it is obvious that he will adopt some good and bad qualities of those strangers who will start turning into familiar faces. So, stop showing your 2 Rupees aukaat in the class by making a student feel humiliated by targeting his parents. Because, if we are what our parents taught us, then the same applies on you. And if this really gets applied on you, then I am very happy to know that your parents have passed on the traits like Ego, Pakaupanti, Bad Communication Skills, Fake Anger, Greed for money, Carelessness for the future of students, Humiliating others for your good etc. 


            This is enough. I have already burst out too much. :-)


  Thanks.


ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU


        

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Ryan Edward the IInd said...

my parents are lecturares themselves. hope you don't stereotype :) but yes i would agree they often say a lot.

Anonymous said...

Perfectly said.. I think our friends have more impact on us during school and college days because we try emulating them, so blaming our parents is 2 kaudi ki mentality.
Bro I had to listen something similar in 12th standard, she was my accounts teacher and used to skip lessons( she used to not teach them and ask us to understand on our own), so one fine day I asked why isn't she teaching the skipped lessons and but she didn't respond. After 15 minutes I asked shall I sit and she responded rudely that did I say you to sit down, to which I reiterated by saying I don't think I have done anything wrong so I am going to sit. She got furious and started taunting me for my great marks( I hated accounts ) and then suddenly she said your parents have taught you this only, to misbehave with teachers. Arey uske baad jo argument I had with her in regards to it is still captured in the minds of my batch mate...Sorry for itta bada post :) hope you won't mind,.. I have an attachment of sorts with your blogs. Keep writing but one thing I want to add is that please focus on grammar because in the long run it will be helpful. :)

PeErLeSs2aCmE

Anonymous said...

it was hilarious:D but then i had the same experiences...gud one..!!

Non Woven said...

A very usefull article – Thank you very much I wish you will not mind me blogging about this article on

my website.Thank you

KumarShanu said...

well said ruhela ..... plz write in hindi .... hindi title aur blog english me :/

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Ryan, I dont have problem with every teacher. This post is in regard to the teachers who do this.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Abhisek bhai, I love when you talk to me through my blogs. :-) I am working on my grammar regularly, Abhisek as I am not a professional blogger but as its the passion, I am trying to improve it daily. Thanks.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thanks Anonymous

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Non woven, just give me the credits in your blog and u can paste it on your blog.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Shanu, I am an English writer yaar. I use Hindi titles to attract readers and nothing else.

ANULAL said...

I work as a lecturer Abhilash, but not the kind you talked about. I know, however, that such 'block heads' rule our academics. Your post nailed it all at the head. Thank you writing this. I myself have written much on such irresponsible and intolerable behaviour from teachers, but your post is quite a direct shot. Congrats! And a big hug for taking the courage!

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Now, what more validity do I need when a lecturer himself said that he is with my views. :-) Thank u anulal sir.

banti said...

-Nice blog sharing information

Hemant said...

Hey Abhilash....you seems to have found so many teachers who are not worth to be referred as teachers....I have great experience with all the teachers/gurus I have in my life....

I myself a corporate trainer...and I know what you said may not be correct in 80% cases...

Good one...u truly burst too much man!!!

Anonymous said...

I feel the story like representing the all students in ur blog...KEEP it up Abhi...

Keep On..
Raja...

sunil tiwari said...

good one bro.....my lecturer once said that we r not good for the course and should be removed from college, and today i m successfully working as an architect....acchi bajai hai salo ki..

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thanks Banti.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thanks Hemant. hahaha.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thanks Raja. I had an idea that every wud have faced this problem. :-)

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Good Mr. Sunil. Hope u keep proving these dumbasses in future too.

Lisa said...

It is a run-away hit! thanks for the share!Parents

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thank u mam.

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