Tuesday, 28 August 2012 | By: AbhiLaSH RuHeLa

A man who never let me do anything unethical... My Father!!!

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            A man who never makes me feel that I am the weakest thread of our family even when I am. A man who never makes me feel that I am the one who needs to perform because he invests so much in me. A man who kept just a single child because he didn't want his children to crave for things and still can't possess them. A man who wants his child to step into every field just because he wants his son to have experience in every damn activity of this world. A man who has never forced me to learn bike-riding even when he has to get all the external works done because he fears that just because of an accident, he might have to lose his only son. A man who never says NO whenever I ask him for purchasing a book that is of any amount and in any quantity; because he wants his son to have better English than him and anyone and also because he don't want any interruption in his son's hobby. A man who is desperately waiting to see his son turn into a published author but yet very content with the fact that his son is being read by masses through a BLOG that he writes regularly. A very happy birthday to my dad- Mr. HARESH RUHELA. On his 52nd birthday, I promise myself that I will try to achieve every dream that he has seen for me before my death(I somewhere feel that I am going to touch heaven before him).

           My father has bad stars when job is concerned. Result is that he has worked in more than 18 industries till date. His inner self always give a shout out to him to leave the work and sit at home but he has kept himself dedicated till date, for the only reason that he has a son who has big dreams and that can be fulfilled only if he has a father who is financially stable and strong. We still belong in the middle-class category but we don't cry for things. If we need, we have enough to purchase. If we want, we control ourselves because there's a thin difference between the "need" and "want". My father believes in securing the future as his experience says that a man should be ready to stand on his legs in any condition that might come at any point of time. He believes in spending his own money in the expensive moment of life than by asking for loans to several friends in the vicinity. He has always given me the instruction of never eating anything for free. If one does, he will have to suffer the consequences when the same person would blackmail later. If one resists, he will always live with head high in pride and satisfaction. 

           Sometimes when my father is angry, he speaks that one does not want to hear. But a man who hears so much from his Boss just for me and my mother, has full authority to speak whatever he wants, when in anger. Ab yahi bolna padega aur kya. :-) Whenever it has been that I have done any mistake, he has told me those worst traits of mine that don't even exists, but as an obedient and sanskarik son, I have to bear those false accusations. :-) And this is the true fun of having a father. A father who never scolds his son is living a waste life. Haha. Ab aur kya bol sakta hun. :-) A man is successful if he provides a permanent roof, proper clothing and three times meal to his family and I am very proud to say that my father is successful according to these terms. If one will ask me to mention a trait that I dislike in my father, and I would be having no other option than speaking it, I would say,"I hate the long lectures and advises that even he knows that I am never going to implement in life". Else, I love my papa. That's a different thing that I don't know how to express it to him. I opine it by abusing Team Anna in front of him as he is a staunch supporter, by talking about my Blog and literature world as he gets irritated after listening for a while, by talking about some useless expenditure as that's the most irritating thing for my father and by telling him how useless and dumb-ass his brothers and relatives are. Hahaha. 

             Dad, you have turned your under-rated(Readers, sorry for irritating:-)) son into a Graduate and have already admitted him into a college to moot him to a new level- Post-Graduate, what can be a better achievement than this for you? You are already 52, the only achievement that is left is- to fix the most beautiful girl of the city as your son's wife, start working on this project now. And this is an order. Haha. A very happy Birthday to you on the behalf of my readers too, I know they want to wish you too. Aap na hotey toh inka Favorite Blogger na hota. Ok Sorry, yet again. I think I should leave before all of you start hitting me with the help of my dad. :-)

 Thanks.
 
 ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU

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Anonymous said...

Many many happy returns of the day to your Father....Convey my regards... :)

Keep ON..
Raja...

Anonymous said...

And a lovely post Abhi...

Keep ON..
Raja...

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Harman said...

very nice ..a perfect blog , a perfect tribute on his birthday ,,God Bless
its always fun to read personal stuff :)

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thanks Raja sir and Harman mam.. :-)

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