Thursday, 20 December 2012 | By: AbhiLaSH RuHeLa

What can we do in such RAPE CASES??

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           Some times, speaking and writing does not do any change in the world. Some times, even sacrificing life does not bring a change. The people who blast bombs here and there to kill people also do it to bring a change though that change is a mere stupidity at demand. But, even then the change does not take place. Now, if you say that I speaking or someone speaking about the Rape cases in personal or on Internet has no meaning attached to it, then what exactly do you want me to do? Cut my penis and make it sure that at least I am not raping anyone in future? Or make all my friends sacrifice their organ so that it ensures that the probability of rapes has lessened down? What exactly can someone do in such scenario except talking and showing sympathy? Is there any other way out? 

           Then there are others who say that just by blackening your Profile Picture or by signing an online petition nothing is going to change. Then tell us how can we bring the change. We are seriously ignorant about the issue. I want to know as to what at my personal best level can be done to eradicate this mentality from the society. According to me, spreading awareness is all that I at this level can do. What more than this? Nothing. Some say that today we are concerned about Delhi rape case just as we were about Guwahati's molestation case but we will forget it soon and get away with our life. No, so what exactly do you want people to do? Keep talking about the issue till the last breathe? Or leave job and sit recluse to show sympathy and give tribute to the victims? One has to move on. Even victim, him/herself will have to move on. Everyone has to earn their bread and butter. Isn't it? So how are some expecting all to talk about the issue for a long time?

           At my personal level, I ensure that the women/girls related to me are safe. I make it sure that my mother is not traveling in local trains at night time. I ask her to stay at her friends' house if I find that it's already past 9. To my female friends, I make it sure that once darkness gets prevailed all around, they stay at my place for the whole night rather than risking their life by traveling at 10 PM in the night. I make them call their father and ask my mother to make them feel safe about their daughter that they are at the right place. To my female friends, I keep on asking them to protect themselves as much as they can. I even walk with them till station every time I can. What more can I do? This I think is possible at the personal level. And if you ask me about changing the mindset of people, I am also trying to do it. Every blog that I write indicates some or the another message. About the safety of women, I have also written as small a thing as how boys keep their hands on a girl's body which keeps killing the soul of the girl in my 603rd Fiction Blog Post. I have written 417th Blog Post about what a father has to suffer whose daughter is been raped. Leave raping, I have also written a post as to how even photography should be boycotted by girls and how boys shouldn't touch a girl while the picture is been clicked. Now, if mindset isn't changing by this, what more can I do? PLEASE TELL ME!!!

            Have you ever seen me uploading pictures of my female friends or sisters or cousins? Have I ever done that? I am that sensitive when it comes to women. I know that a morphed picture itself can violate a girl's soul for whole life. Now, when we have finally known that our country has gone to that level where Gang rape is a common news, who will have to take the step? When I take these several steps which does not guarantee any protection, will not girls and boys have to protect themselves? Will not 8 PM be made the final deadline to be at home? The normal college timings or office timings are from morning 9 to evening 6. Why? So that we can reach home by sunset. What if you chose to be partying in dark or watching evening shows of movies? Who has put ourselves at risk? Rapists or we? Rapists are rapists- it's their job to rape. Just as robber robs, rapists rape. Don't we protect ourselves from robbers? Why not from rapists then? I know you would be saying that I am talking as if the victim is criminal him/herself. But, there's no other option to protect ourselves. Seriously! Ye hamein samajhna hi hoga.

           The metal rod was inserted in girl's vagina brutally because she bit the rapist's hand when he was trying to rape her. And then, it was taken out in such a force that it pulled a part of girl's intestine out of her body. Now, the girl's whole intestine has damaged and doctor has said that she can never be a mother ever in life. And she can never be fed like a normal person and will be only fed through intravenous fluids. But girl still wrote on a paper,"Mother, I want to live". Now, even her living looks to be more pitiful than her dying. :-( This is what these rapists have done to her. :-( I will never ask for capital punishment for the criminals but I would like government to cut their hands and reproductive organ with which they violated humanity. This will at least let them suffer at least 1% of violation what the girl is suffering currently. She has gone under 5 surgeries and will have to be in hospital for next 10 days at least. :-( While writing this post, I have read another news where 24 years old is being set on fire after rape by the rapist in Bengal. Please, government. Punish the bastards. Please punish. That's all I can do from my side. Else, if there's something that I can do more than this, help me. I have myself been a victim of physical violence and torture for good 4-5 months. I know how those days used to kill a lovely child in me. I can understand what went in girl's mind in all those minutes when she was been treated like....... 

 ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU

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Naina Agarwal said...

1. Defiling a girl is something which is more than a Sin.
2. To all those who keep saying that posting something or the other on social networking sites won't help ; I just want to say that atleast we are creating awareness at a particular level ! We are supporting in whatever way we can ! Something is better than Nothing !
3. Sex-Transformation or Impotency will not help ! This can make the sinners more frustrated , and they may become murderers ! In my opinion , they should be thrown to the dogs , or slaughtered like an animal in public !

Asit said...

Karne Ki toh bohat ichha hai but tum sahi ho chah kar bhi hum kuch kar nai sakte...:( :(

Asit said...

Awareness is the best thing we can do at present other than that we cant do anything...let other countries know whats going on here with womem so they never come to visit here....

Pratibha said...

Death penalty..

Anonymous said...

Please set up a way to donate money to her family. They sold their land to educate her, she is suffering today because as a society we failed to speak up sooner, this could have been any one of us. Animals, no matter what precautions you take will find a way to attack you. A 5 year old in karnataka was stolen from her bed while she slept to be raped outside in the woods! She was not safe at home with her whole family, even with doors locked! Please find a way to set up collections through humans that care and give it to the family personally so noone abuses the donations.

Sanchit said...

i am sure she'd be thankful for this post...everyone has been left with a rage after what happened...we all want a piece of those sick bastards...

Anonymous said...

Rite Abhi...
Self protection is necessary for all.

Hope it occurs in this case..

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151227674498071&set=a.98977928070.88732.87167763070&type=1&theater

:(

Keep ON..
Raja...

Prerna Varma said...

I really hope this article reaches millions.... Because it targets the inherent goodness of people... The fact that you take simple steps to protect women around you would inspire others to try help others.

Prerna Subramanian said...

So true. Read my post on this topic too-
http://worth-a-million.blogspot.in/2012/12/achcha-rape-kar-rahe-ho-bhaiyya-thela.html

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Thanks to all of you for posting your views/answers... I seriously needed comments on this post... Lets keep thinking as to what really can be done.

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